All you have to do is listen to the other person until they have told their whole story and are satisfied that they have expressed themselves. Had this meeting been held two weeks ago, I should have stood here a stranger to most of you, recognizing a few faces.
They quarreled about which was the stronger, and the wind said, "I'll prove I am. This is costly every time you do it. Keep insisting that you are the one to apologize for the original error.
This belief leads to a genuine interest and appreciation for other people. How to Get Cooperation. Leave this field empty if you're human: Lincoln thought to excoriate Meade on how he had single-handedly lost the Union the war, but he instead imagined being on the frontlines of battle — seeing the deaths of thousands of your men, hearing the screams of the injured.
Everyone has something they can teach you, and you benefit by figuring out what that is. Begin with praise and honest appreciation Calvin Cooledge said to his secretary, "That's a pretty dress you are wearing this morning, and you are a very attractive young woman.
Treat him as if he were an honorable gentleman.
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Subscribe to get my next book summary in your email. I am resolved to right the ship. Tactics Any upset person feels completely justified in their anger, no matter what you believe. It may sound obvious, but most people nevertheless persist in approaching each interaction with the desire to explain their own needs and desires.
My family has been prominent here for over two centuries and I am very proud of this state. In that, I learn of him.
Yet in our interactions with people, we always barge in talking about what we want, which is a complete waste of time and effort. They crave importance, and correcting them insults their pride.
Point it out, show appreciation for that. You wrote me a letter a few weeks ago, and I want to thank you for it. If they come back and want to continue, then you will accept it without hesitation and admit that your judgment of character was wrong.
Carnegie offered to wager a hundred dollars that he could get an answer by return mail, without even asking for it. Let the other person do a great deal of the talking. Do not promise anything that you can not deliver.
Appeal to their interests. Show the extremes of performance with memorable imagery. But it takes character and self-control to be understanding and forgiving. It is not the ideas themselves that are dear to us, but our self-esteem which is threatened. You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.
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